We had the Moroni Awards for the women who were examples to others and were picked by the Relief Society Presidency to receive a trophy. It was held as a dinner and a small program with songs helping us to lift our goals and be better as Latter-day-Saint women.
Another was the "table designer" award. Every year the names were chosen and those that had the assignment decorated a table for an elaborate formal dinner. I remember even taking a picture of the my table and I do still have the picture. My table was white and lavender and it was expensive and took me weeks to prepare. I was out-done by every single other table decoration in the Cultural Hall. You can make a "purse outta' a sow's ear" with enough money.
Young Women's camp Liahona awards, was another program, it was well written and tried to tie the elements of the earth to the scriptures and the Liahona. All the girls graduating were given an award, but each award was represented by the elements of the earth. My oldest daughter was a Beehive 1st year when this was discontinued. She enjoyed it and wanted to be water. But at this time, the older girls were morphing the awards that were given to them, to mean other things and not recognizing the scriptures that went with this camp program. This award was in some ways similar to Scouting and was a bit of a ceremony for fun and then somehow ended, making so many left with hard feelings. Kangaroo Court at girl's camp was right-up there with how fun can change into harassment and hazing.
Oh, and there were others. All of these programs and ideas that everyone was making-up and presenting were unfortunately, flawed. I cringed when we received the homemaking award program, called "The College of Homemaking" It was given to us on April 1, 1988 and because of the date, I was sure it was a joke.
The introduction letter was about learning to achieve and be successful in life. We needed to become better wives and mothers, which requires unnumbered (no duh!) skills and talents. We were admonished to achieve greater heights in skills and talents and though this program all will improve ourselves, gain much knowledge, and will develop talents and grow spiritually.
I noticed it had a date at the beginning and an ending. I sighed when I saw the date: 18 months and I almost cried. I was asked to have different people sign my requirements off to get my credit. My heart just sank. This was going to be like interviews and everything. Things that I enjoyed doing would become a burden. I couldn't really learn other things that I felt I had some interest, and my bread making schedule--- Oh no! Would I have to stay up later at night? I was sending homemade bread to a neighbor that had terminal cancer and all he could eat was my bread. He said to us that it tasted like his mother's bread. I couldn't stop the bread. There would be no room for anything but the "list" and I would be controlled by this 18 month schedule. Challenge? Oh yes, and a very huge burden. Our neighbor did pass-away, but as life is--I also became pregnant with my youngest, and the baby we had prayed for, for so many years, was a blessed prayer answered. I was soooo morning sick and all of my work on this program ...well, I just hid it. I was using my freedom of choice and here, my baby and her health and my wellness came first. It wasn't long after I had hid my papers, that this program and everyone of the other programs, that had been implemented into our activities, were stopped. There was an announcement from the pulpit and from our leaders to only follow what had come from the right sources, as The First Presidency of the Church. Just by thinking a little bit, a person could quickly see some very worthy persons would and could be left-out in these award programs and in so many ways. A shy person would probably never make the Moroni Award. If you didn't have money, there could be no fancy dinner award, and what about naming or labeling a young girl that she belongs in a category of fire if she didn't understand or know the scripture study to realize what her placing really meant? The homemaking award has a lot of goals, what if you couldn't read very well, from health issues, the lack of education, or any number of other obstacles. All the well-meaning programs could lead to real humiliation.
There are a great many ideas here in the "College of Homemaking" that would be fun to learn and if you are interested in goal-setting for only yourself. Actually, not everything. I didn't like writing a poem and sharing with the Eliza R. Snow Poetry Contest and have it published. I was embarrassed to the core when I compared my attempt to write beautifully and read what others had submitted. Mine could be a limerick compared to the beautiful poetry and songs that were submitted. How about make gluten and use it in your meals? That was just too much, since most of my children and myself can't even digest gluten, what a waste of time and effort. There are some others, but on a whole these goals are worthwhile and if a person had time, developing a talent is fun without the fanfare.
I want to say I do support the small handout that is sponsored by the Church called Women of Excellence. Makes me stay-on-track with my scripture reading, personal prayers, Temple attendance, etc. and it's small. It's a woman's own guide if help and direction are needed. That's me. I would say this program is really wonderful and a inspirational guidepost. The analogy of the "iron rod" comes to mind when it means staying on track, helping us on our journey. We know the "iron rod" are the scriptures. Maybe for some of us, the Women of Excellence is a hiking stick to lean on as we travel holding on with our other hand to the "iron rod".
I think the most important thing we can do with New Year's Resolutions is just by wishing everyone of my friends and family a Happy, Happy New Year. I hope everyone makes a bunch of goals and achieves everyone of them, that is of course, the ones you love doing. If you don't love it, quit. Find your passion and enjoy the learning that comes with your goal or resolution. Actually, the resolutions means resolute in doing something. Does that mean you can't move on and make your goal "work" another way? Yep. So I think the Resolution word it O-U-T and the word goal is in. I would also hope that your goals aren't "bucket lists" because we will all be ready for wonderful new ones next year. Hurray, for fun and important goals for you. Things that will help us grow, improve, and gain new skills, serve our family, friends, (enemies...I can add that!), situations, and become a better woman, wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, friend, and daughter of God. We don't need an award for these things or recognition because our improvement is our reward.
One really good idea is to just do 3 goals in 30 days. It's on Facebook and called 3 in 30. The inspiration and mission is encouraging and challenging each other to accomplish goals in 2011. "Goals are dreams with deadlines". I think this is a realistic and quite a way to move forward in our steps to progression in reaching any goal we might be yearning to complete and enjoy. We know that in good small things, greatness happens. I'm grateful that I stumbled on to this site and even though I don't log-in with my goals, they are right here in my sturdy notebook. I have a link to one of the blog pages that help found 3 in 30 and a link is provided on my blog, under "Favorites" at the bottom of my blog on the left-side. Happiness is moving forward.
Bachelor of Homemaking
COMPLETE 23 OF THE 30 REQUIREMENTS:
- Make an apron.
- Sew in a zipper.
- Make a dress or shirt with set-in sleeves.
- Make a crocheted, knitted, embroidered or needlepoint item.
- Spend at least 1 hour quilting or tying a quilt.
- Organize your sewing center.
- Have on hand, fabric and sewing notions to dress your family adequately for 1 year. You may consider each family member's present wardrobe and then plan to sew all additional items.
- Bake from scratch a layer cake and frost it.
- Make a casserole you've never made before.
- Make baking powder biscuits or muffins from scratch.
- Make a pie from scratch.
- Make homemade salad dressing or mayonaise.
- Make a batch of bread and give it away.
- Preserve fruit, jam or jelly by canning, drying, or freezing.
- Preserve vegetables by canning, drying, freezing or pickling.
- Organize your recipe file.
- Make at least one survival candle or buddy burner and use it for light, heat, or cooking.
- Clean and organize your linen closet.
- Before retiring, pick-up, and put-away anything out-of-place each night for one month (excluding children's bedrooms).
- Manicure your nails 30 times. (no) hahahah
- Give someone a haircut (no) They won't let me!
- Do 10 minutes (what?) of organized exercise each day for one month without missing one time.
- Give the lesson for your Family Home Evening six times.
- Write a note of thanks to someone who has touched your life.
- Write two letters to a missionary.
- Attend Relief Society 80% of the time for one R.S. year.
- Magnify your calling as a visiting teacher.
- Invite the missionaries to dinner.
- Read the "First Presidency Message" in the Ensign each month for 10 months.
- Have your personal prayers each night and morning for six weeks without missing.
Master of Homemaking
COMPLETE 23 OF THE 30 REQUIREMENTS:
- Make a nightgown, bathrobe, housecoat, or pajamas.
- Recycle one item of clothing by making it over.
- Sew an item of clothing for a man or boy.
- Make a tied or quilted quilt.
- Make one batch of gluten and serve to your family (ewww!)
- Make a raised sweet roll.
- Grow some sprouts and serve them to your family. (Does the Chia Pet count?)
- Make a tray of appetizers.
- Make a dessert from your year's supply.
- Investigate ways of preserving meat from your freezer if the electricity should go off for a long period of time, and try out one of these methods on at least one piece of meat.
- Plan 4 weeks of dinner menus, at least five meals per week. Keep on schedule for four weeks, making no more than two major changes.
- Go for a 24 hour period without using any electricity or natural gas in your home at all. You may leave your freezer and refrigerator plugged in, but may wish to try not opening them that day. You may also leave your furnace on, though perhaps at a lower temperature. Or camp-out for two day without a camper or trailer.
- Plan and serve a dinner or luncheon party.
- Inventory food storage. Check what you have on hand and make a list of items yet needed for your year's supply.
- For one entire day, use only water from your storage supply.
- Grow some fruits and vegetables.
- Make a first-aid kit or evaluate and update your present kit.
- Make a flower arrangement.
- Make at least three of your Christmas gifts.
- Read the "Random Sampler" in the Ensign for 10 issues.
- Attend relief Society 85% of the time for one R.S. year.
- Participate in a choir.
- Make a work of art or submit an entry in the Eliza R. Snow Poetry Contest or the R.S. Song Writing contest.
- Do your genealogy for generations back.
- Do a compassionate service once a month for six months.
- Record your family''s major expenditures for one month and organize a workable family budget.
- Memorize ten scriptures.
- Have a 15 minute daily scripture study for one month.
- Hold family prayer night and morning for one month, not missing more than two times.
- Have ready a 72 hour pack for each person in your family. Include extra clothing, bedding, food, first-aid basics, etc. Place it in a strategic place in your home for use in case you should need to leave quickly because of earthquake, flood, fire, etc.
Doctor of Homemaking
COMPLETE 23 OF THE 30 REQUIREMENTS:
- Sew cording or an applique on something.
- Make drapes, curtains, bedspread, window shades, or a rug.
- Make a pair of shoes, moccasins, sandals or slippers.
- Keep a live yeast-start growing for a month and use yeast from it in your baking.
- Bake all the bread for your family five times in four weeks.
- Shop for groceries only five times in four weeks.
- Have on hand one year's supply for the four basic supplies: wheat, sugar or honey, dry milk, and salt, Evaluate it and be sure it's complete. (This doesn't necessarily apply anymore. Store what you can eat and what your family can tolerate--the new rules)
- Make a batch of soap or participate in making soap.
- Weed your yard or garden.
- repair something electrical, mechanical, etc.
- Paint or wallpaper a room or assist in both.
- Refinish or upholster a piece of furniture or assist in both.
- Make-up a work schedule for your routine housework and stick to it for two weeks.
- Clean all closets and storage areas of your home and prperly dispose of items no longer of use.
- Be patient, kind, and understanding with your children and husband for three consecutive days.
- Label and date all photographs of your family. (Wow!)
- Write your personal History.
- Complete a class through the Institute of Religion, Community College, BYU Home Study, or an Adult Education Program.
- Prepare a another emergency kit for your car with tools and emergency supplies. Study all the necessary and needed items and purchase them and tie-them-down properly in the car or trunk.
- Demonstrate the ability to use the following skills: No mouth to mouth here, so study the NEW CPR and also know the Heimlich Maneuver.
- Seek out someone who does not attend relief Society on a regular basis and fellowship her into full-activity in Relief Society.
- Teach a Relief Society mini-class or teach someone a skill.
- Attend Relief Society 90% of the time for one R.S. year.
- Be five minutes early for every church meeting for one month. (Excluding real oxen in the mire)
- Bear your testimony in Fast and Testimony Meeting or at Relief Society.
- Attend 80% of your church meetings for one year.
- Read the Ensign cover to cover for two issues, (one issue must be a conference report)
- Read all church scripture reading assignments for one year. (It's the New Testament for 2011).
- Attend the temple nine times during the year. if you haven't yet received your temple blessings, prepare yourself and obtain your temple recommend.
- Submit the name of an ancestor to have his or her work done in the temple.
Bill Watterson is so great!
Love Calvin and Hobbs.
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